1、一份改变您健康观念的演讲(转) philipzimbardo:thepsychologyoftimeiwanttosharewithyousomeideasaboutthesecretpoweroftime,inaveryshorttime. video:allright,starttheclockplease.30secondsstudio.keepitquietplease.settledown.itsabouttime.endsequence.takeone.15secondsstudio.2023,nine,eight,seven,six,five,four,three,two. ph
2、ilipzimbardo。eonadam,dontbesowishy-washy.takeabite.idid.onebite,adam.dontabandoneve.idontknow,guys.idontwanttogetintrouble.okay.onebite.whatthehell。(laughter) lifeistemptation.itsallaboutyielding,resisting,yes,no,now,later,impulsive,reflective,presentfocusandfuturefocus.promisedvirtuesfallpreytothep
3、assionsofthemoment. ofteenagegirlswhopledgedsexualabstinenceandvirginityuntilmarriage-thankyougeorgebush-themajority,60percent,yieldedtosexualtemptationswithinoneyear.andmostofthemdidsowithoutusingbirthcontrol.somuchforpromises. nowletstemptfour-year-olds,givingthematreat.theycanhaveonemarshmallowno
4、w.butiftheywaituntiltheexperimentercomesback,theycanhavetwo.ofcourseitpays,ifyoulikemarshmallows,towait.whathappensistwo-thirdsofthekidsgiveintotemptation.theycannotwait.theothers,ofcourse,wait.theyresistthetemptation.theydelaythenowforlater. waltermischel,mycolleagueatstanford,wentback14yearslater,
5、totrytodiscoverwhatwasdifferentaboutthosekids.therewereenormousdifferencesbetweenkidswhoresistedandkidswhoyielded,inmanyways.thekidswhoresistedscored250pointshigheronthesat.thatsenormous.thatslikeawholesetofdifferentiqpoints.theydidntgetinasmuchtrouble.theywerebetterstudents.theywereself-confidentan
6、ddetermined.andthekeyformetoday,thekeyforyou,is,theywerefuture-focusedratherthanpresent-focused. sowhatistimeperspective。thatswhatimgoingtotalkabouttoday.timeperspectiveisthestudyofhowindividuals,allofus,dividetheflowofyourhumanexperienceintotimezonesortimecategories.andyoudoitautomaticallyandnon-co
7、nsciously.theyvarybetweencultures,betweennations,betweenindividuals,betweensocialclasses,betweeneducationlevels.andtheproblemisthattheycanbecomebiased,becauseyoulearntoover-usesomeofthemandunder-usetheothers. whatdeterminesanydecisionyoumake。youmakeadecisiononwhichyouregoingtobaseanaction.forsomepeo
8、pleitsonlyaboutwhatisintheimmediatesituation,whatotherpeoplearedoingandwhatyourefeeling.andthosepeople,whentheymaketheirdecisionsinthatformat-weregoingtocallthempresent-oriented,becausetheirfocusiswhatisnow. forothers,thepresentisirrelevant.itsalwaysaboutwhatisthissituationlikethative experiencedint
9、hepast。sothattheirdecisionsarebasedonpastmemories.andweregoingtocallthosepeoplepast-oriented,becausetheyfocusonwhatwas. forothersitsnotthepast,itsnotthepresent,itsonlyaboutthefuture.theirfocusisalwaysaboutanticipatedconsequences.cost-benefitanalysis.weregoingtocallthemfuture-oriented.theirfocusisonw
10、hatwillbe. so,timeparadox,iwanttoargue,theparadoxoftimeperspective,issomethingthatinfluenceseverydecisionyoumake,youretotallyunawareof.namely,theextenttowhichyouhaveoneofthesebiasedtimeperspectives.wellthereisactuallysixofthem.therearetwowaystobe present-oriented.thereistwowaystobepast-oriented,twow
11、aystobefuture.youcanfocusonpast-positive,orpast-negative.youcanbepresent-hedonistic,namelyyoufocusonthejoysoflife,orpresent-fatalist-itdoesntmatter,yourlifeiscontrolled.youcanbefuture-oriented,settinggoals.oryoucanbetranscendentalfuture:namely,lifebeginsafterdeath.developingthementalflexibilitytoshi
12、fttimeperspectivesfluidlydependingonthedemandsofthesituation,thatswhatyouvegottolearntodo. so,veryquickly,whatistheoptimaltimeprofile。highonpast-positive.moderatelyhighon future.andmoderateonpresent-hedonism.andalwayslowonpast-negativeandpresent-fatalism.sotheoptimaltemporalmixiswhatyougetfromthepas
13、t-past-positivegivesyouroots.youconnectyourfamily,identityandyourself.whatyougetfromthefutureiswingstosoartonewdestinations,newchallenges.whatyougetfromthepresenthedonismistheenergy,theenergytoexploreyourself,places,people,sensuality. anytimeperspectiveinexcesshasmorenegativesthanpositives.whatdofut
14、uressacrificeforsuccess。theysacrificefamilytime.theysacrificefriendtime.theysacrificefuntime.theysacrificepersonalindulgence.theysacrificehobbies.andtheysacrificesleep.soitaffectstheirhealth.andtheyliveforwork,achievementandcontrol.imsurethatresonateswithsomeofthetedsters.(laughter) anditresonatedfo
15、rme.igrewupasapoorkidinthesouthbronxghetto,asicilianfamily-everyonelivedinthepastandpresent.imhereasafuture-orientedpersonwhowentoverthetop,whodidallthesesacrificesbecauseteachersintervened,andmademefutureoriented.toldmedonteatthatmarshmallow,becauseifyouwaityouregoingtogettwoofthem,untililearnedtobalanceout.iveaddedpresent-hedonism,iveaddedafocusonthepast-positive,so,at76yearsold,iammoreenergeticthanever,moreproductive,andimhappierthanihaveeverbeen. ijustwanttosaythatweareapplyingthistomanyworldproblems:changingthedrop-outratesofschoolkids,combatingaddic