1、IntroductionHere we talk about the family training difference and social influence between Western and Eastern.Deng xiaoping says,the basic of the modern socity is the talent.the first school of the kids is family.the parents realize family training is very important.it is a big chanllenge for his o
2、wm traditional mind.so they intake the mind of the western.As we all know, many experts have tried to give culture a definition. No matter how many definitions of culture we have, they still have the common characteristics of culture as folows : 1. Culture is learned 2. Culture is shared 3. Culture
3、is transmitted from generation to genetation 4.Culture is subject to change. With the development of the society, culture is unavoidiably subject to change. These changes result from the development of social elements.HowThe chinese movie,sunflower,chiefly tells us about a story of a chinese family
4、and reflects chinese peoples education methods and values.the American movies,little Miss Sunshine,chiefly tells us a story about an american family,and reflects a typical mode of American family educatino and American peoples life style.the difffereces of family members relationships between two co
5、untries can be found in these two movies.The chinese father like paint,but for some history reason,he is not become a painter.so he has a wish,that can make his son to be a painter in the furture,but the son didnt like paint,so he make a argument with his father for a long time.when he is 19 yrs old
6、,he has a wish to escape his fathers control,so he do something with his own personality and temperment.anyway he fails.when he is 30 yrs old,he becomes a artist which more perfect than his father has been ever think.he got a quality to aggainst to his father,but he has a sence of grateful and guilt
7、.in other way,the father understand,his education has a problem.that reflect one is: “holding high hopes for childrenin china.Here is a little miss sunshines.The american family has 6 members,theyall have a strange character.every one has his shortcomings.meanwhile everyone didnt want to listen to o
8、thers.so they always has a argument at the table.it is lasting for the daughter hears a beauty show,the family comes to the calm.because she want to visit show.she finish her dream tring her best.After dicussing,they dicided to accompany her sweetie to get her dream.on the road,they meet many differ
9、ent troubles,such as the car broken.that is not only need their skill but also need test their ATTITUDE.although there is not beautiful all the road.but they learn how to believe to each other.From here we can see that the American one, “expecting children. to grow up naturally. Is their mind.Disscu
10、ssDeng xiaoping says,the basic of the modern socity is the talent.the first school of the kids is family.the parents realize family training is very important.it is a big chanllenge for his own traditional mind. so they intake the mind of the westernThe parents play very important role in the family
11、 training.imitating the Western family training becomes a boom in China,it is good or not for the development of the children and what is the influence to the sociality.The parent in china is paying more attention to the only-child nowdays.many children in cities have family tutors and more and more
12、 children have to learn a lot before they go to school.this is mainly because parents want their children to become somebody or to live better when they grow up.but the parent in western,when the kid born,they will have their own personality mind.no matter the parents or the relatives ,they have no
13、chance to do a choice for their kids.from he born,he is a master in his family.He can do what he want do,love what he prefer love. The parents in china control the moves of the kids,they will think ,their kids is too small to do everything.no matter how old the kid is.they afaid their kid make mista
14、kes.But in Western,the parents think their kids can search his conscience.they encourage their kid do everything that he can do.they may think it is respect to the kids.for example,when a kid learn how to walk,the parents walk at front.the kid follow their parents.But in China,the parents may afraid
15、 the kid has a bumbling. The parents in china,they work hard in order to give their kids better life,they buy too much toys for his kid,they give them fancy clothes and expensive food.A saying said:if u wanna a star in the sky ,i will pick it for u.But in Western,they pay more attention to the mind.
16、when their kid got some trouble,they will ask the parents for a suggestion.In china,when the kid meet some problem,they will solve the problem from friend,or just hide deeply in their heart,that is why more and more kid give up the life. The parents in china is satisfied with copy the other successful samples to teach children.everywhere we can hear that he is good at everything,u should learn from him in each family.if he against the arrangement,their
