1、控制好你内心的心流演讲稿 eveensler：embraceyourinnergirlgoodmorning.imveryhappytobehereinindia.andivebeenthinkingalotaboutwhatihavelearnedovertheselastparticularly11yearswithv-dayandthevaginamonologues，travelingtheworld，essentiallymeetingwithwomenandgirlsacrosstheplanettostopviolenceagainstwomen. whatiwanttotalk
2、abouttodayisisthisparticularcell，orgroupingofcells，thatisineachandeveryoneofus.andiwanttocallitthegirlcell.anditsinmenaswellasinwomen.iwantyoutoimaginethatthisparticulargroupingofcellsiscentraltotheevolutionofourspeciesandthecontinuationofthehumanrace. andiwantyouimaginethatatsomepointinhistoryagrou
3、pofpowerfulpeopleinvestedinowningandcontrollingtheworldunderstoodthatthesuppressionofthisparticularcell，theoppressionofthesecells，thereinterpretationofthesecells，theunderminingofthesecells，gettingustobelieveintheweaknessofthesecellsandthecrushing，eradicating，destroying，reducingthesecells，basicallybe
4、gantheprocessofkillingoffthegirlcell，whichwas，bytheway，patriarchy. iwantyoutoimaginethatthegirlisachipinthehugemacrocosmofcollectiveconsciousness.anditisessentialtobalance，towisdom，andtoactuallythefutureofallofus.andtheniwantyoutoimaginethatthisgirlcelliscompassion，anditsempathy，anditspassionitself，
5、anditsvulnerability，anditsopennessanditsintensityanditsassociation，anditsrelationship，anditisintuitive. andthenletsthinkhowcompassioninformswisdom，andthatvulnerabilityisourgreateststrength，andthatemotionshaveinherentlogic，whichleadtoradical，appropriate，savingaction.andthenletsrememberthatwevebeentau
6、ghttheexactoppositebythepowersthatbe，thatcompassioncloudsyourthinking，thatitgetsintheway，thatvulnerabilityisweakness，thatemotionsarenottobetrusted，andyourenotsupposedtotakethingspersonally，whichisoneofmyfavorites. ithinkthewholeworldhasessentiallybeenbroughtupnottobeagirl.howdowebringupboys。whatdoes
7、itmeantobeaboy。tobeaboyreallymeansnottobeagirl.tobeamanmeansnottobeagirl.tobeawomanmeansnottobeagirl.tobestrongmeansnottobeagirl.tobealeadermeansnottobeagirl.iactuallythinkthatbeingagirlissopowerfulthatwevehadtotraineveryonenottobethat.（laughter） andidalsoliketosaythattheironyofcourse，isthatdenyingg
8、irl，suppressinggirl，suppressingemotion，refusingfeelinghasleadthushere.wherewehavenowcometoliveinaworldwherethemostextremeformsofviolencethemosthorrificpoverty，genocide，massrapes，thedestructionoftheearth，iscompletelyoutofcontrol.andbecausewehavesuppressedourgirlcells，andsuppressedourgirl-ship，wedonot
9、feelwhatisgoingon.so，wearenotbeingchargedwiththeadequateresponsetowhatishappening.iwanttotalkalittlebitaboutthedemocraticrepublicofcongo.forme，itwastheturningpointofmylife.ihavespentalotoftimethereinthelastthreeyears.ifeeluptothatpointihadseenalotintheworld，alotofviolence. iessentiallylivedintherape
10、minesoftheworldforthelast12years.butthedemocraticrepublicofcongoreallywastheturningpointinmysoul.iwentandispenttimeinaplacecalledbukavuinahospitalcalledthepanzihospital，withadoctorwhowasaclosetoasaintasanypersoniveevermet.hisnameisdr.denismukwege.and，inthecongo，forthoseofyouwhodontknow，therehasbeena
11、warragingforthelast12years，awarthathaskillednearlysixmillionpeople.itisestimatedthatsomewherebetween300，000and500，000womenhavebeenrapedthere. whenispentmyfirstweeksatpanzihospitalisatwithwomenwhosatandlinedupeverydaytotellmetheirstories.andtheirstoriesweresohorrificandsomind-blowing，andsoontheothers
12、ideofhumanexistence，thattobeperfectlyhonestwithyou，iwasshattered.andiwilltellyouthatwhathappened，isthroughthatshattering，listeningtothestoriesofeight-year-oldgirlswhohadtheirinsideseviscerated，whohadgunsandbayonetsandthingsshovedinsidethemsotheyhadholes，literally，insidethemwheretheirpeeandpoopcameou
13、tofthem. listeningtothestoryof80-year-oldwomenwhoweretiedtochainsandcircled，andwheregroupsofmenwouldcomeandrapethemperiodically，allinthenameofeconomicexploitationtostealthemineralssothewestcanhaveitandprofitfromthem.mymindwassoshattered. butwhathappenedformeisthatthatshatteringactuallyemboldenedmein
14、awayihaveneverbeenemboldened.thatshattering，thatopeningofmygirlcell，thatkindofmassivebreakthroughofmyheartallowedmetobecomemorecourageousandbraver，andactuallymorecleverthanihadbeeninthepastinmylife. andiwanttosaythatithinkthepowersthatbeknowthatempirebuildingisactuallythatfeelingsgetinthewayofempire
15、building.feelingsgetinthewayofthemassacquisitionoftheearth，andexcavatingtheearth，anddestroyingthings.iremember，forexamplewhenmyfather，whowasveryveryviolent，usedtobeatme.andhewouldactuallysay，whilehewasbeatingme，dontyoucry.dontyoudarecry.becausemycryingsomehowexposedhisbrutalitytohim.andeveninthemome
16、nthedidntwanttoberemindedofwhathewasdoing. iknowthatwehavesystematicallyannihilatedthegirlcell.andiwanttosayweveannihilateditinmenaswellasinwomen.andithinkinsomewayswevebeenmuchharshertomenintheannihilationoftheirgirlcell.（applause）iseehowboyshavebeenbroughtup，andiseethisacrosstheplanet，tobetough，tobehardened，todistancethemselvesfromtheirtenderness，tonotcry.iactuallyrealizedonceinkosovo，when
